| In addition, the consequences that every thought | | | | Always remember there are three sides to every |
| creates. By the energy that we give to each | | | | issue. |
| thought, we create either a positive or a negative | | | | As a parent you must set the boundaries and they |
| outcome. Thought comes first, then the words, then | | | | must be kept. What are the rules in your home? Are |
| the action. Thoughts are real forces. Understanding | | | | your children getting eight hours sleep every night? |
| and harnessing the Power of our Thoughts is the | | | | Sleep deprivation causes STRESS which can effect |
| key to discover the true potential which lies within all | | | | their learning. |
| children. | | | | A wise man once said, There is no pillow so soft as a |
| As more people become aware of The Power of | | | | clear conscience. Always resolve disagreements |
| their Thoughts and how important it is to change | | | | before you go to bed. If you say punishment is to |
| their negative thinking to positive thinking,the | | | | be grounded with no computer or television for a set |
| evolution of this planet will be changed forever-for | | | | period of time. Then that is what it must be. You |
| the greater good of all humanity. | | | | must follow through with your word. It is very |
| A great percentage of children go through life | | | | important to always keep your word. Your word is |
| without positive knowledge. They have absolutely no | | | | your magic wand. If you set chores as a punishment, |
| control over their thoughts, their mind just thinks | | | | they must be completed. Children feel that you care |
| whatever it wants to think, with no regard as to | | | | more, when everyone lives by family rules. |
| who it may hurt. Their mind is running wild and out of | | | | If a child picks up a lack of love in your words and |
| control. | | | | actions towards them they will accept your words as |
| Many children have not been taught about the Power | | | | fact and feel that they are not loved. They will |
| of Thoughts. They did not learn it in school, or from | | | | become that person because they believe you. If a |
| their parents or teachers. Because many adults do | | | | child is raised by cold unloving parents the child will |
| not know. | | | | feel unwanted and unloved life then becomes a cruel |
| Adults teach children what they know, but what | | | | cold existence for them everyday. |
| they know may not be so. Many adults live | | | | When a child is shown no affection at all they will |
| completely in the outside world. A world that is | | | | look for love somewhere else. Somewhere else |
| prevalent with Negativity, Manipulation, Lies, Illusions, | | | | unfortunately is often a bad choice like drinking, |
| and Disappointments. Driven by materialism and | | | | smoking, emotional eating or promiscuous behavior. |
| narcissism. | | | | Do you know where your children are and what they |
| Many parents do not know how to make wise | | | | are doing? Do you know who they are spending their |
| choices. Many parents also go through their whole life | | | | time? If you do not put your detective hat on and |
| without learning life skills. Parents do the best they | | | | find out. Teach them that the universe is governed |
| can to raise their children with the knowledge they | | | | by laws and so are people. You cannot be responsible |
| have learned, in the circumstances and situations that | | | | for all their mistakes and misjudgments. However you |
| they lived in. If they have been raised in a negative | | | | can accept that they are children learning and |
| destructive environment, to often the negativity is | | | | stumbling. Help them lead them support them and |
| passed forward generation to generation until | | | | love them. It is our responsibility to teach them how |
| someone decides to make a positive change. Will that | | | | to make wise decisions. If no one does what an |
| be you? Will you make that change? Will you break | | | | earth can we expect. |
| the chains of negativity in your family? Negativity is | | | | When children know that they are loved and trusted |
| like a generational curse. It is very destructive. | | | | they are happy. When they grow up and become |
| To live a good balanced life we must first learn to | | | | adults respect their right to choose their own path. |
| live from the inside out. The true spiritual person is | | | | They may be old souls and know what their mission |
| within. Be the one to take a leap of faith. Change | | | | and purpose is in this life. |
| your life and become a positive, loving, contributing, | | | | Do not set your expectations to high for them or |
| and kind, uplifting person. Learn to live from the | | | | yourself. Do not expect them to be perfect. |
| inside, your transformation will shine on others. | | | | We the parents are not perfect either. We are all |
| Especially the ones you live with. | | | | just working towards perfection. So let it be said that |
| Even if you fail and keep backsliding, Keep on | | | | you love your children even when they are not |
| working on yourself. Never give up. Allow yourself to | | | | perfect. They love you and they know that you are |
| drawn by the stronger pull of what and who you | | | | not perfect. |
| really are. | | | | I am sure that sometimes you are so proud of them |
| Unfortunately, we cannot change someone else. We | | | | you could burst with joy, and sometimes you feel |
| can only help others by setting an example. | | | | that you cannot cope.Funnily enough children seem to |
| People will change by seeing the change and | | | | cope well with imperfect conditions when we accept |
| differences in us. Continuously keep seeding the | | | | our imperfect children. |
| Light, the Truth, and the Love. Children thrive on | | | | Being the parent does not give you a license to hurt |
| Love, Firmness, Understanding, and Consistency. | | | | them. We must abstain from hurting anyone in any |
| We must first become the changes we want to see | | | | way including ourselves. If we do not we are creating |
| in others. Let the true authentic perfect person within | | | | a negative karmic debt. |
| who knows all truth evolve. All people have the | | | | Open your heart wide to your child and be big |
| seeds of divinity within them. Negativity will separate | | | | enough to admit to them when you are wrong. Be |
| us from Divinity. | | | | Honest. Be a kind loving contributing uplifting human |
| Discovering the Power of Thoughts is the key to the | | | | being. |
| discovery of the true potential within us all. | | | | To be a human being you do not need bright lights or |
| As people become more aware of the power of | | | | outer world pleasures of alcohol drugs and cigarettes. |
| their thoughts, and how important it is to think | | | | Contributing to the success of your child's life is to be |
| positive, contributing ,uplifting thoughts they will be | | | | a good human being. We need to be good parents |
| more prepared for life. Prepare your children for a | | | | and to have a good character. This sets a good |
| good life. help them to understand that we will never | | | | example for them to live by. |
| rise any higher in life than our level of thinking. | | | | Parents need be firm strong and unwavering through |
| Positive thoughts, words, and actions, reap positive | | | | life's storms. A rock for our children to lean on when |
| results. All children are born with the seeds of | | | | they are not coping with life. To make wise peaceful |
| greatness planted deep within them. They all have | | | | decisions for all who are involved. To continuously |
| Value, Identity, and a Purpose. They are V.I.Ps. | | | | grow and let go of ego. To be quiet strong and |
| Unfortunately for some, these seeds are not | | | | courageous. To have self-respect self-esteem dignity |
| nurtured therefore they never grow. They live a | | | | a healthy pride honest committed keeping your word |
| whole life time in negativity and pay the ultimate | | | | honoring each other and believe in each other. If you |
| price. | | | | are a good leader your children will follow you. |
| Do you want your children to walk through life in | | | | True genuine Happiness and Joy comes from being |
| righteousness? Do you want your children to fulfill | | | | useful in other peoples lives. It is not by a superficial |
| their hearts desires and to follow their dreams? Do | | | | instant material satisfaction. It is a state of mind and |
| you want them to struggle through life living with the | | | | being connected with humanity and nature. It is |
| consequences of their transgressions? | | | | contentment satisfaction peace caring goodwill |
| You will never find a successful prosperous | | | | compassion goals warm heartedness acceptance love |
| enthusiastic vibrant and happy person speaking | | | | and feeling needed. Have you found joy in your life? |
| negatively. That scenario just does not and cannot | | | | Have you given joy to others? |
| exist. | | | | Where are you in your humanity? |
| How many parents say they love their children, yet | | | | Take your children out on a dream day. Inspire them |
| they speak contaminating destructive negative harsh | | | | to dream big dreams to have a vision and to set |
| words to them. How many parents are raising their | | | | goals. Take them to a university a courthouse a |
| children in duality? Telling children not to do certain | | | | library the theater a live concert to the ballet or an |
| things yet doing them yourselves. Telling them to tell | | | | opera. Show them all the wonderful opportunities |
| the truth, yet they hear you tell lies-to often. | | | | that are available for them. Help them to create a |
| Teaching them false piety or false beliefs. Do you | | | | mental picture of what they may want their life to |
| ever question your beliefs, do you ever ask yourself, | | | | be like. |
| How do I know this belief is true, or where it came | | | | Start your children on a path of achievements. It has |
| from, before you pass them on to your children. | | | | been proven that if you start your children very |
| A wise man once said, One evening an old Indian | | | | young on a career path they become motivated |
| wise man told his grandson about the battle that | | | | enthusiastic and focused. Many have started as |
| goes on in our mind. The constant battle of negative | | | | young as four years old. Dancing singing playing a |
| and positive thoughts. One of these is evil he said; It | | | | classical violin or a piano acting painting writing or |
| is thoughts of anger envy jealousy regret sorrow | | | | photography. All of these activities have shown |
| greed arrogance self-pity guilt resentment lies | | | | fabulous results. However research has found that |
| revenge inferiority false-pride superiority hate fear | | | | classical activities have the best results. These |
| and ego. | | | | activities include character building. |
| The other Is good, It is love peace joy hope faith | | | | Talk to them and find out where they would like to |
| serenity humility kindness benevolence empathy | | | | start and get them started. |
| generosity compassion true-truth acceptance and an | | | | One young child I know wanted to be in medicine |
| open heart with goodwill towards all men and for the | | | | possibly physical therapy and spent years as a runner |
| wonderful world that we live in. The grandson | | | | winning many awards. What did she do when she |
| thought about it for a few minutes and then he | | | | grew up? She went to university to be a town |
| asked his grandfather. Which one will wins this battle? | | | | planner. She found her passion by seeking and |
| The One that you choose to Feed and Focus on. His | | | | exploring many possibilities. |
| grandfather replied. | | | | Sharing your life with children and watching them |
| We all love our children but they often become | | | | succeed knowing that you played a small part in their |
| strangers to us. This is a time to look within and ask | | | | achievements is pure JOY. How much are you willing |
| yourself, What can I do to improve my relationship | | | | to give of yourself? |
| with my children? Do you tell your children you love | | | | Teach your children about human rights. Human rights |
| them and then kill it with your words? Are you | | | | must be protected. We all have a responsibility to |
| contributing to your relationships twenty four hours a | | | | that because we are all human beings. We are all |
| day? Alternatively, are you contaminating your | | | | equal and we are more alike than we are different. |
| relationships twenty four hours a day? | | | | The poor and the ethnic human beings have little or |
| This is after all your choice. | | | | no protection and they have no defense. We must |
| Do you speak to your children in an offensive rude | | | | believe that people are innocent until they are proven |
| insulting cruel hurtful manner? This can kill a childs | | | | beyond reasonable doubt to be guilty, and even then |
| spirit. Do you speak untruths? This teaches children | | | | we must not judge them. Whatever they have done |
| to lie. Do you react to everything by yelling and | | | | is not who they are. |
| screaming obscenities when they misbehave? This | | | | Maybe your child will become the next human rights |
| causes a child to withdraw. Do you use the silent | | | | lawyer with the heart of Martin Luther King. |
| treatment. This makes them feel unwanted. | | | | We are not born with negativity we are taught |
| This is unacceptable behavior you are behaving like a | | | | negativity. |
| child. It is time for you to grow up and behave as | | | | Excerpt from an old hymn. You have to be taught to |
| the parent. Please talk to your children with love and | | | | hate and to live in fear and then it grows from year |
| respect as little adults. Negotiate and seek new ways | | | | to year. You have to be taught to live in light and |
| to fulfill each other's needs. | | | | love and then it will grow from the infinite guidance |
| I know it is hard to have self-control all the time, | | | | above. |
| however please do not react to every little thing. | | | | Live with your children in light and love. Teach them |
| Stay calm and speak with understanding, do not take | | | | to live a life that matters. Live a spiritual life dedicated |
| things personally as though everything is your fault. It | | | | to the evolution of consciousness for consciousness |
| is not about you. It is about your children and their | | | | sake itself. Live the Impersonal Life. |
| life. You are the parent. Parents are the guardians the | | | | We have the power and the ability to create a home |
| teachers and the protectors of children. Take | | | | that is like living life in heaven on earth, or we can |
| responsibility for that. | | | | create a home that is living life in hell on earth. It is |
| Relationships have to be continuously nourished or | | | | your choice. |
| they will fall apart. The love and respect for one | | | | My visualization of heaven is that heaven is more |
| another will die. | | | | beautiful than anyone can imagine or omprehend. |
| It is a parents responsibility to seed words of: | | | | Words alone cannot describe it and we can live in it |
| I love you. | | | | everyday. Create your heaven in your home with |
| How are you feeling? | | | | your family and live in it everyday. I live in my |
| Are you happy? | | | | heaven everyday and I give thanks for it every night |
| Is anything troubling you? | | | | and every day. |
| I am so grateful to have you in my life. | | | | I will finish this article with a personal message to all |
| You are such a blessing to me. | | | | parents. A parents work is never done so why not |
| You are so smart. | | | | choose to make it fun. No previous experience is |
| You will be able to achieve anything you want to do. | | | | required. No Self Help instruction book comes with |
| I have complete faith in you. | | | | the job. On the job training is offered on a continually |
| You are such a good child. | | | | exhausting basis. There are no paid holidays and no |
| I am so proud of you. | | | | reimbursements but this job supplies limitless |
| Take a positive step and bring positive changes into | | | | opportunities for personal growth for the rest of |
| your family. | | | | your life. If you play you cards right you might get |
| Do you hold a family meeting every week with | | | | free hugs for life. |
| writing pads and paper to discuss any issues | | | | My Love and Respect I send to you all. To be a |
| suggestions grievances or questions? Do you have a | | | | parent is by far the hardest job in the world. You all |
| box in your kitchen for everyone to put suggestions | | | | deserve a medal. |
| to be discussed at next weeks meeting? Does | | | | Thank you for reading this article. Forward it to |
| everyone in your household have a voice? These | | | | someone you know who may be struggling with life |
| things unite a family giving each one an opportunity | | | | as it is. I invite you to contact me if you would like |
| to speak and give their ideas. | | | | more information on this topic. |