Self Leadership - The Bigger Game Competencies From A to Z

y">- What is it you want to do, be and have?
"One's philosophy is not best expressed in words; it is- What is it you really want to do, be and have?
expressed in the choices one makes. In the long run,- What is it you really, really, really want to do, be
we shape our lives and we shape ourselves. Theand have?
process never ends until we die. And, the choices weQuestions to Factor in "B to Y" to get from "A - the
make are ultimately our own responsibility." Eleanorpresent game - to Z - your Bigger Game"
Roosevelt (1884-1962) U.S. human rights activist,Between "A" and "Z" there are a number of
author, and First Ladychallenges and opportunities. In this case there are 24
Executives, professionals, entrepreneurs or anyone infactor letters: "B" to "Y" with little "b's" through "y's"
transition can have remarkable results by upping thealso available as resources. So you see, you have a
ante to play a bigger game worth pursuing. There arewild range of possibilities to select from to reach "Z."
unlimited possibilities. What restricts one from playing- The journey begins at "A" and you want to get to
a bigger game is playing a game with the same"Z". Beginning with the end in mind - in this case "Z"
competencies expecting better results. Whenbeing the end - what are 24 action steps you can
engaging in a new game with the unchangedtake to reach "Z"? These can be a combination of
competencies you aren't playing bigger. In reality youtiny steps and big steps. They all build towards
are actually playing the same game!winning the game you want to win.
For athletes to get to higher levels of achievement,- What are three resources you have available to
they have to raise the bar to advancedhelp train you in reaching new competencies to play
self-awareness. They do this by accessing theiryour bigger game? It could be a mentor, coach,
potential, which they put into action through training.friend, school, etc.
It is progression from where the athlete comes to- What will keep you inspired and motivated along
the game with her/his existing competencies andthe way, especially when the going gets tough?
then enrolls in coaching and training to expand to her- What are five habits you will be developing during
his bigger game possibilities.this journey to ensure your success? It could be
For example, let's use the English alphabet as abetter time management, meditation, reading
metaphor in developing a bigger game. One wouldbiographies of people you admire and inspire you.
think it makes sense that to transcend from "A" (theTips to Transform Your Present Game to a Bigger
present) to "Z" (the new future) it would beGame
necessary to advance by gaining abilities in the mix of- Understandably you may be in a position where you
the remaining 24 steps "B" to "Y." However, whatneed answers now, but reacting from fear will
often occurs is people get anxious, fearful, doubtful,attract more of the same. Taking proactive
discouraged, and quit before they get to "C." Theymeasures from self-awareness brings more of what
believe by working harder using the same tools andyou want rather than reacting from fear.
knowledge from the past they can transcend directly- You are the master of your destiny, which is
to "Z."accessed from within NOT from external doing. The
An innovative future with possibilities grows throughexternal doing is in response to the call within. You
process. The first step is to leverage where you are.are more attractive when you are doing what you
That would be the "A" factor in following the "A" tolove and meant to be doing through each facet of
"Z" allegory.your life.
Questions to Determine "A" Factor - the present- Keeping a closed mind to possibilities that there is
game:another way minimizes who you are and what you
- What are your values? Values are what youare capable of doing. Closed mind - closed heart is
naturally feel is important to you, whether it belimited living. YUCK!
family, safety, creativity, beauty, integrity, friends,- If your environment is full of clutter, clean it up.
etc.Clutter is taking up space and energy. By removing
- What tight spots have you been in where it lookedclutter you allow your inner guidance the space to
unlikely you would succeed, but you did? Make ahelp you design the bigger game you yearn for.
note of them. This is a good place to notice yourClutter adds responsibility to your "someday" list that
strengths and values.can add stress and overwhelm.
- What are your needs? A need is something you- Remember your "bigger game" is within you and
must have to be your best. Your values will give youready to come out and play to win. After all Anything
additional clues.is Possible!
- What are your wants? These are things"Leadership is not so much about technique and
experiences that you can do without if you had to.methods as it is about opening the heart. Leadership
They are appealing and can be gratifying.is about inspiration-of oneself and of others. Great
Questions to Determine Reaching the "Z" Factor -leadership is about human experiences, not
your Bigger Gameprocesses. Leadership is not a formula or a program,
- What insights did you get from the "A" Factorit is human activity that comes from the heart and
questions?considers the hearts of others. It is an attitude, not a
- What is your bigger game possibility? Give yourroutine."-Lance Secretan - U.S. leadership author and
bigger game a name, such as "Thriving Now" orconsultant.
"Living Life on My Terms."