There Are Only Two Ways to Rule a Society, By Fear or by Hope, & It

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“There are only two ways to rule a society,flow are stored differently in the brain than
by fear or by hope, and it’s the same fornon-adrenal memories.
any individual too”Such 'adrenal stress created memories' are also
My extensive study of history shows me that thephysically stored in a portion of the brain closer to
statement above is fundamentally true. But the mostthe amygdala. The amygdala is the primitive
important thing is that as individuals we are much the“frog brain”. This is a non-self aware
same.portion of the Central Nervous System found in all
We can either allow ourselves to be ruled principallymammalian and reptilian brains.
by fear, or we can lead our lives more positivelyA quick example and proof that adrenal memory are
through rational hope.qualitatively different from non-adrenal created
Think about this a moment please, are you morememories is easy to provide.
preoccupied with the fear of what mightAt a seminar I will ask the people to raise their hands
happen’, rather than on what you want toif they can remember exactly where they were and
happen in your general decision-making?precisely what they were doing when they either
I am no stranger to fear. I have certainly knownheard that: (1) President Kennedy had been
knee-shaking fear and seen horrific examples of myassassinated or (2) They heard that the Space
own mortality. One cannot experience any form ofShuttle Challenger had exploded and crashed into the
real combat I think without experiencing that, or elsesee.
one is a total madman.Almost everyone will raise their hands in response to
But ultimately I saw that in that arena my bestone of these questions even though the event
survival strategy was not to engage the fear ofoccurred many years or decades ago.
what might happen, but to stay alert and as calm asThey remember in detail exactly what they were
possible and thus see clearly and immediatelydoing and exactly where they were and in great
everything that was happening arounddetail. But they do not remember what was going on
me…and then to respond appropriately.just before they heard that trajic news. Nor do they
Ultimately it dawned on me that while my fear was aremember what happened with such clarity at that
totally rational one under the circumstances, that feartime the next day.
simply did not “serve me”. Indeed, itThis is because the news of the disaster had resulted
was more likely to cause my demise than to savein some adrenal flow in them and thus the memory
me.was an 'adrenal memory'. That means it was stored
This was a true epiphany for me and at a ratherwith more detail, more vibrancy and in much more of
young age. But the lesson has stayed with me andan enduring fashion than any non-adrenal memory.
served me well and now I am sixty years of age.If you want to think to the next step here you can
I have spent the majority of my life trying tosee that this special nature of adrenal formed
communicate this same lesson (minus the horror) tomemories is the essential basis of all PTSD
others. I make this effort through my books andphenomena.
through my adrenal stress conditioning trainingHence, a PTSD episode will be triggered by any cue
programs. When ones transcends some fear it isthat was in the environment when that adrenal
both a very liberating and often life changingmemory was created. That cue and trigger could be
experience.a sound, humidity, a smell, a visual cue, etc. PTSD is
There are two kinds of fear however, rational fearnot limited to combat veterans at all either. We can
and irrational fears.carry subconscious PTSD triggers that were formed
Under normal circumstances rational fear serves you,when we were young children.
it makes you look both ways before pulling out inHowever, with varying degrees of success I know it
traffic etc. But you are not really feeling the fearis well possible to significantly moderate the negative
then are you? You are dealing with the danger in anlife effects of irrational fears and many PTSD
appropriate fashion though.symptoms. This is not theory with me as I have
You have just learned to sublimate the experience ofbeen working with these concepts not as abstract
fear in the act of pulling out into traffic for the mosttheory, but as tools for over 25 years now.
part.A woman who has been forcibly raped will almost
This is because you have ‘gotten used toalways have PTSD symptoms to some degree or
it”. But this was not always so.another from this atrocious violation of human rights.
You experienced more fear pulling out into trafficThe triggers to these PTSD symptoms can be many.
when you were younger and first learned to driveExamples of triggers could be, a smell, an article of
didn’t you? My point is we can discover andclothing a song that was playing on the radio during
‘unlearn’ other fears that do notthe attack etc.
serve us too.But if she is placed into a scenario that recreates the
We can eliminate fears that limit our lives and that willtraumatic event she will experience an adrenal flow
provide us with the strong potential to developand whatever occurs during that time will create
'rational hope' as our ‘world view’.another adrenal memory through the same
That is the attitude we need, it one that will expandbiochemistry as the actual assault did.
our lives.Now here is where the therapeutic aspect manifests
Sorational fears can be reduced and sublimated likeitself. If what happens in the scenario is she has been
the example of pulling out in traffic without beingtrained to where mentally and physically she can
excessively concerned about a crash.defeat the mock assailant she will still be quite
But rational fears serve a survival purpose too. Someadrenalized and as a rule very much so.
rational fears keep us from doing stupid andThe mock assailant Iuse is well trained and wears
dangerous things like sticking your hand into apadded armor so she can attack the eyes, groin and
rattlesnake cage.head without restraint. It only takes a weekend to
Now let me tell you something significant aboutactualize the bulk of anyone’s self-defense
sticking one’s hand out to a rattlesnake in apotential too. The key is their unleashing and tapping
cage. Decades ago in a bar I frequented in El Paso,into to their survival instincts more than
Texas, there was a large and very much alive“technique” as martial arts people
rattlesnake in a lidded glass aquarium. It was a bitoften believe.
more than just ‘curiosity’ to attractUnderstand I say that as a member of the
travelers into the bar too.International Black Belt Hall of Fame too. It
The aquarium was quite secure and the snake couldisn’t the size of the woman in the fight,
not strike anyone from inside. But, as locals we knewit’s the size of the fight in the woman that
the 'secret truth'. And so occasionally we would makecounts most.
a wager with a passing tourist.But understand what has occurred here on a
The bet was that they could not hold their handsubconscious level when she defeats her assailant in
against the glass and keep it there when the rattlerthe scenario. At fist you might think it is a cathartic
struck at their hand from inside the glass.effect and while it is, that is not the most significant
The stranger might suspect something was up, buttherapeutic effect here at all.
he often still told himself, “The snakeIn doing this scenario she has created two adrenal
can’t hurt me through the glass so I can winmemories in her pre-conscious with basically the same
this bet”. He was ignoring something his'triggers'. The scenario is deliberately engineered that
‘gut” was trying to tell him there.way and by her own direction too.
Pay attention to your 'gut feelings' and, learn to trustThese two different outcomes, the actual and the
them too.They are there for a reason.scenario, them in a short time become convoluted
Often we enticed the tourist further by giving himwith each other. The new neural nets need some
favorable odds, like two or three to one that hetime to form, this can be a few weeks or so, or a
could not do it.few months. The cathartic effect is powerful and
You see we knew that he could not do it, almostimmediate though.
nobody can. So when the guy stuck his hand on theAfter this, when exposed to a PTSD eliciting cue her
glass and the rattler stuck at the glass he jerked hismind brings up alternative imagery than before the
hand away instantly!adrenal stress, scenario based treatment. It is then a
Sometimes he’d even make another betmemory mixed with fear and triumph. Once this is
being so sure he could do it the next time, asestablished her own cognitive, self-aware mind can
he’d be more consciouslybetter engage the trauma and further heal it.
‘prepared’. But the result was alwaysThe process is basically the same with any irrational
the same because the reaction to jerk your handfear or PTSD situation. But I must also say that an
away is involuntary and does not engage theindividual should be far enough along mentally to
self-aware mind.engage this type of therapy. They have to be ready
Let’s think about this situation though and infor it in a sense.
terms of what it tells us about fear. I believe that ifI also want to point out another benefit of this
a person had no knowledge at all of rattle snakesprocess, even for people not suffering from PTSD or
he'd still jerk his hand away.any truly disabling irrational fears.
I mean if they had never even seen a rattler before:Most people's socialization has estranged them from
in pictures, literature or film or in any other mediumtheir survival instincts. Those instincts are always
and so they were happily and totally ignorant of thethere, but they may have never experienced them
existence of rattle snakes, they would still jerk theirbefore.
hand away when the snake fustily struck the insideWhen a persons survival instinct are engaged, and
of the glass at their hand.like the rattler in the cage, this does not require that
Now If the above is fundamentally true,then wethere be any 'real danger' to do this, they become
must ask: Why is it so?stronger and more balanced and confident in their
It is because we carry ‘geneticconsciousness.
memories’ that is ‘geneticWe only need to project the voice, tone, and body
fears’ that activate our neurological systemcarriage of a verbal abusive and threatening assailant
and thus produce this automatic motor response. Weto adrenalize most people in our programs. Again, the
don’t have to ‘know” there isbody ’just does not know the
danger when the snake strikes, thedifference’.
‘body’ already knows”.Black Belt Magazine called my weekend program
The mechanism by which genetic memories are“The best short self-defense program
formed is not fully understood as yet. But theexistent”. Self-Defense is important too, but if
peculiar nature of memories created and experiencedthis was all the RMCAT program accomplished for
under adrenal stress provides us with a verypeople, I may have given it up years ago.
significant clue.In closing good people think on this thought.
It is already well established biochemically that